Hard money vs private money: what is the difference?

    By Updated September 2026

    Hard money comes from a lender that makes short-term real estate loans as a business, with published terms of roughly 10 to 14 percent and two to four points; private money comes from an individual or small group lending their own funds, often at 8 to 12 percent with fewer points but less predictability. Hard money is repeatable and fast; private money is cheaper when you have the relationship.

    Side by side

    Hard money lenderPrivate money lender
    Who lendsA company or fund that lends full timeAn individual, family office, or small group
    Typical rate10 to 14 percent8 to 12 percent
    Points2 to 40 to 2
    TermsPublished guidelines, consistent from deal to dealNegotiated each time
    Speed5 to 10 daysAnywhere from 2 days to never, depending on the person
    PaperworkStandard note, deed of trust, servicingOften lighter; sometimes too light
    ReliabilityHigh; capital is committedDepends on the lender's other commitments
    RegulationLicensed in many statesOften exempt below a certain number of loans per year

    Ranges vary widely on the private side because every lender is different.

    When private money is better

    You have a relationship with someone who has capital and trusts your track record. Terms are usually cheaper, there is no origination department, and the lender can move on a phone call. Many experienced investors fund most of their deals this way.

    When hard money is better

    You need certainty of funding, a lender who will do the third and tenth deal the same way as the first, draw administration on rehab, and a clear paper trail. Hard money lenders also have capacity: they can fund several deals at once where an individual's cash is finite.

    The risks of private money

    • The lender changes their mind or runs out of funds before closing.
    • Undocumented terms lead to disputes at payoff.
    • Missing lender protections, such as a recorded deed of trust, insurance requirements, and a proper note, create problems for both sides and for your refinance later.
    • Usury laws: some states cap interest on loans from unlicensed lenders.

    If you borrow privately, use a real note and deed of trust drafted by a real estate attorney, record it, and pay through a servicer.

    Combining the two

    A common structure is hard money for the first mortgage and private money for part of the down payment or the rehab, where the hard money lender allows it. Ask first; many do not allow secondary financing.

    How CommFi handles it

    Our lending desk prices the deal first and funds direct when it fits. When a hard money specialist is the right match, the desk searches a database of 7,000+ lenders and the ones that fit compete for it. Zero upfront fees, and every loan is documented and serviced properly.

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    Related questions

    Is private money cheaper than hard money?
    Often, by two to four points in rate and one to three points in fees, because there is no origination business behind it. Terms vary lender by lender.
    Is hard money more reliable than private money?
    Usually. Hard money lenders have committed capital and a repeatable process. A private lender's availability depends on their other commitments.
    Do private money loans need to be documented?
    Yes. Use a note and deed of trust drafted by an attorney and record it, or the loan will cause problems at refinance.
    Can I combine private money with a hard money loan?
    Sometimes, for part of the down payment or rehab, if the hard money lender permits secondary financing. Ask before closing.
    Do private lenders need a license?
    It depends on the state and the number of loans per year. Some states cap interest on loans from unlicensed lenders.
    About the author

    Property developer and licensed appraiser. 22+ years in real estate: TIC conversions, multi-unit redevelopments, mixed-use, fix and flips, commercial DSCR.